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boys moaning is basically the hottest thing a guy can do besides give you neck kisses
do you guys realize we can change our lives any time we want like you can just go ahead and delete your blog, stop eating meat, shave your head, start running, tell that person you hate why you hate them so much, confess your love to someone and kiss them unexpectedly like why don’t we do that
why? why do you do that? sure it might look cool and soft grunge edgy but in russian, that makes no sense. like. you just made up a word. using russian letters to spell out communism for some grunge aesthetic bs? no. stop. that’s disrespectful. y’all be ashamed. you literally spelled out something like “sottchet” cuz ‘s’ doesnt even exist in the russian alphabet. ugh
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“Womens’ supposed greater sex drive was an argument for their inferiority, but once the assumption became reversed, no one argued that mens’ lustfulness was a sign of a fundamental irrationality that should preclude them from business and politics. Rather than a handicap, a large sexual appetite was positive once it came to be seen as a characteristic of men.”
Alyssa Goldstein in "When Women Wanted Sex Much More Than Men".
This article is fascinating because it shows how malleable our vision of gender is. It also shows that the value we give to attributes (such as a high sex drive) is not inherent in the attribute, but is instead connected to the gender role that we assign the attribute to. We can create either a positive or a negative narrative about any kind of personal characteristic. Then we can use these narratives to uphold oppression. If women have a greater sex drive, it makes them uncontrolled and weak. If men have a greater sex drive, it makes them virile and strong and motivated.